Don and Angela
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December 2008

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3

Happy belated Thanksgiving

7

A new reason to celebrate

12

Bits and bobs

17

Gotta love the Bush and the shoes thing

19

Our top eight in '08

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

3 December: Happy belated Thanksgiving

By Angela (read more of Angela's stuff on her pages!)

It's a few days past now, I know, but remember, we WORK on the last Thursday and Friday of every month as if it was a regular week! My idea - and this could be revolutionary - is that we get to have BOTH the holidays of the country we live in AND the country we come from!! How's that sound?

We decided to host a Thanksgiving party on the weekend, but it had to be kiwi-ised, so a BBQ. We bought a small little BBQ and Don cooked meat and veggie items while 15 of our friends came over. I ventured into the baking world and made two pumpkin pies - from scratch because you cannot buy anything ready made here! They turned out very well, after I did a practice run a few weeks ago. Don wants me to make him one weekly now, but it was about three hours worth of work, OY.

Happy Thanksgiving to everyone, belatedly. We hoped you enjoyed your day and ate plenty of good food.

And of course I am jealous that most of you had a four-day weekend last weekend, but I am really, really looking forward to the Christmas and New Year's holiday this year as Don and I have two whole weeks off and we'll be visiting a new location in New Zealand, relaxing, doing a whole buncha nothin' except laying around on the beach ... for the record there's a beach at home too which is wayy cool. Stay tuned on the vacation, there should be some good shots and things to talk about!

Your comments:

Happy belated thanksgiving to you too!  We were a little sad (but not really) to celebrate our last thanksgiving in america, at least for the foreseeable future! :)
~ Lindsay
The pumpkin pie was delicious!!!! Please let me know when you bake another, I will trade you some of my chocolate brownies for a slice of your pumpkin pie,
~ Kate xxxx

7 December: A new reason to celebrate

I know some of you US history buffs are keen to remember this day in history, 7 December, the invasion of Pearl Harbour. Others, in fact probably most of you, are really looking forward to Christmas - presents and time off work. A few more are already excited about New Year's as well.

But Don and I now have a new holiday in December, one that will be celebrated for years to come with drunkeness, revelry, bonfires, fireworks, and even the odd bout of lewdness. Anyone is welcome to join in, party always at our house, and in our wee office near the computer and the router. From now on, the key holiday at the end of the year that we will look forward to is...

5 December, Broadband Day.

The new day of infamy, the day Angela and Don were returned to the world of the living. The day Telecom saw fit to reconnect us to the world. Yes, we have our broadband back.

Only four months, four days, and 17 hours after we lost our world status as broadband holders, we would be invited back with nothing more than a brief voicemail message. Still, it felt good.

It would be appropriate to start the festivities early on the 4th of December, as that is now known as 'Notification Day,' the day I received a missed call on my cell from a number I recognised. I waited in anticipation, however, to check said voicemail because I wanted to complete my bike ride after work. I was pretty sure who called when I saw the familiar Canterbury based number, but I couldn't be sure until I dialed and checked. I extended my suspense until after I got home from that windy, blustery evening ride that I'll never forget, I picked up my cell as I sat in front of the computer and dialed my voicemail. "Hi this is ??? from Telecom regarding the broadband service at ########## and we want to let you know your connection is available and you should have service by 7pm on 5 December." A Friday, appropriately enough, as there would have to be cocktails mixed and poured.

I hung up, and a smile crept to my face. Of course I immediately contacted Telecom on my land line - which is going to enjoy the break from the tedious work it did during 'The Dialup Months of 2008' - and set up my new billing and broadband programme. 10GB per month, it's like a dream I've not yet woken from. The smile still sits upon my face all these days past.

The irony in all of this was that for the first time I accepted Telecom's request for a phone survey after my call was complete. I was eager to be nice, feeling gracious and all. But they disconnected my call and my survey opportunity. Oh well, their loss - and believe me, they could use a good bit of feedback. Too bad they didn't realise I was in a generous mood. Maybe they surmised who it was on the other end of the line and opted out in a preemptory strike after my many calls during The Dialup Months of 2008. Whatever.

Thus, henceforth 5 December will be an official holiday known as Broadband Day and Don and I will dance a jig with some version of a feijoa vodka martini in our hands, for this new holiday will officially launch summer, open the door to Christmas and New Year's, and mean that Don must purchase yet another gift for me.

Your comments:

Ah yes, all is now right in the world!  Congrats!  But please spare me any pictures you might take of Don dancing...
~ Brian

12 December: Bits and bobs

By Angela (read more of Angela's stuff on her pages!)

I'm reaching now for things to write because all that is on my mind is that in one week I leave on HOLIDAY!!!! Two weeks off, I feel as if it will be heaven no matter where I am, but we will be in a lovely spot on the North Island that I'll write about in the new year.

**Have to share with you this house that sits across the street from the base of our hill. I can see it on walks, as I drive by, it is ever present in my line of vision as it sits in its state on the opposite hill - which is the hill we used to live on, but we were on the front of it.

See the red square? Of course you do! The house is in the middle of it, but I kind of think it looks like a compound with a run down bus in the top left red corner next to other run down cars and a clearly etched out dirt driveway and dirt tracks. Across the street, on my hill, we have a development of lovely houses, some very high end (my house is modest but lovely) with indoor pools and three stories, ya know, the stuff you're used to in the States (LOL). But all of us drive down the street and look at the 'compound' and this house - it's pretty funny. I know we all have this kind of neighbour in our cities and towns, but I gotta say this house is pretty unique with its foundation and pilons! It's like a spider web down there, clearly man-made, added to in a piecemeal way over time like a lovely oil painting!! Except for the parts that look like they've fallen off over time.

**Don is now famous in his own right. Watching the news the other night we learned that Google Streets has finally come to New Zealand - so of course we went to look at our house and the house we're renting on holiday. Don used it before in the States to see our Colorado house - depressing! Our current house here in NZ wasn't very exciting, the photos were taken before we lived here. Apparently it took Google 12 months to drive a photo van up and down every street! So we looked at our old rental - take a look for yourself if you're interested: 29A Coster Street Enner Glynn Nelson New Zealand should do the trick.

**Our Christmas party at work was last Friday and for me it was simply a night off of cooking with some free drinks. We each get two free drinks and then they cost, so that's a nice balance, being a government organisation and all. Unlike what we're hearing on the news, our party didn't get shut down or scaled back from what I could tell, but it was pretty modest to begin with! The best part of the night is vegetarians eat first because they partition out the food, so I get to eat early AND avoid the very long buffet line that often takes others half an hour to get through. The bad part is I have no one to eat with cuz they are all in line!!

**My department also holds a Christmas party, a team building/celebrating type event. I put my hand up this year to help plan it and my boss joined me. We came up with this great idea together and then, as it usually turns out when you team up with your boss, I ended up doing all the work after the theme was decided. But that's okay, I didn't really mind as it's good to be king and make all the rest of the decisions! I am holding 'The Amazing Xmas Race' tonight -YES! just like the TV show, sorta. Our 15 or 20 department staff will join up in teams and have to complete tasks and solve clues to find their next clue, etc etc, all to earn points toward real prizes. And I don't have to participate, just sit back, drink my wine, and see who wins!

17 December: Gotta love the Bush and the shoes thing

By Angela (read more of Angela's stuff on her pages!)

I'm sorry, but this story is just classic. What a fitting end to ... whatever you call the last eight years. And to receive such a tribute from the very people he is so proud to have liberated. Goodbye, George, Good Riddance!! The below is trimmed out from cnni.com - in the off chance you haven't had the pleasure of hearing the story. With some commentary thrown in.

Iraqi journalist throws shoes at Bush in Baghdad

BAGHDAD, Iraq (CNN) -- A man identified as an Iraqi journalist threw shoes at -- but missed -- President Bush during a news conference Sunday evening in Baghdad, where Bush was making a farewell visit.

Bush ducked, and the shoes, flung one at a time, sailed past his head during the news conference with Prime Minister Nuri al-Maliki in his palace in the heavily fortified Green Zone.

The shoe-thrower -- identified as Muntadhar al-Zaidi, an Iraqi journalist with Egypt-based al-Baghdadia television network -- could be heard yelling in Arabic: "This is a farewell ... you dog!"

While pinned on the ground by security personnel, he screamed: "You killed the Iraqis!"

Al-Zaidi was dragged away. While al-Zaidi was still screaming in another room, Bush said: "That was a size 10 shoe he threw at me, you may want to know."

Hurling shoes at someone, or sitting so that the bottom of a shoe faces another person, is considered an insult among Muslims.

What a great insult, and what a pathetic comeback. There's no dignity in this man is there, he couldn't even find a dignified way to accept that a man had just insulted him and thrown TWO shoes at him. Laugh it up, fuzzball.

The official said al-Zaidi is being tested for alcohol and drugs to determine if he was fully conscious during the incident.

I think it was probably the most sober and sane thing the guy ever did! He'll be okay with a bit of torture now just to have had the chance.

Al-Zaidi drew international attention in November 2007 when he was kidnapped while on his way to work in central Baghdad. He was released three days later.

Ahh, now it all makes sense. That's called freedom, buddy, see, we brought you that, you should be more grateful (George would say). Freedom to be kidnapped.

"So what if the guy threw his shoe at me?" Bush told a reporter in response to a question about the incident.

"Let me talk about the guy throwing his shoe. It's one way to gain attention. It's like going to a political rally and having people yell at you. It's like driving down the street and having people not gesturing with all five fingers. ...

Sounds like he sees this thing all the time, doesn't he. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Here's a funny interpretation.

I find myself a bit hesitant in putting stuff like this up, feeling like I did after he invaded this country and you couldn't say anything about anyone let alone George. Mostly it's gone, but still, a small hint of fear remains. I bet I'm already on a watch list. But maybe that will be over soon, in a few weeks.

Your comments:

I've read your blog off & on for a while & you do a great job of describing life in New Zealand. I voted for Obama but I was ashamed of the shoe thrower and thought it insulting to all Americans. I served in the Armed Forces and I currently have family members serving. Right or wrong Americans have died so that he may throw that shoe. He wouldn't have tried that against the Hussein regime. You did well to leave the states and live in a country that will never have the courage to try to leave an impact on the world. Right or wrong at least Americans make an attempt top do good. Good riddens to you.
~ Dean
 
Dean probably won't be reading my response, but oh well. My father served in the Marines for 20 years, I am the daughter of such service and lived with other military families as a child, so please don't act like I am taking advantage of a privilege I know nothing about. I would disagree that America had 'the courage' to leave an impact on the world by invading another country, especially when its residents now feel the need to throw shoes at the president of the United States and the rest of the country finds that shoe-thrower a national hero. Those two thrown shoes were for one man, not for Americans. Only one man need feel insulted. If you're so proud that Americans gave him the right to throw the shoe, why are you objecting so strenuously?
Why does Dean, and others who believe as he does, get so heated over a shoe-thrower, a SHOE-THROWER?? What about WMD, the tens of thousands of Iraqis that are dead, the Taliban resurgance, the treatment of women, everything in Africa for pete's sake, the families of the US soldiers back home who have sacrificed, and on and on and on. Why is it only our soldiers that are used as a tool in this argument? Obviously I could go on, but people who argue this argument never come to a middle ground, do they?
~ Angela
 
First I will apologize for the "good riddens" comment.  I do understand that you are probably in the "far left" crowd.  Angela your "middle ground" is why this country went through such a long period of time voting for people like Bush & Cheney.  The average American understands that it does take courage to send sons & daughters into harms way in a foreign land to affect change.  And for you to label it differently causes a back lash in which people stop voting FOR something and start vote AGAINST something. Example: people voting for Republicans only because they can't stand the far left that was dominating the Democratic party... I suspect this is how you ended up in New Zealand.  We can argue about just & unjust wars forever. Do I think that we made a huge mistake invading Iraq? YES! In human evolution almost all major changes to a given society comes with a major loss of life.  To end slavery cost hundreds of thousands of innocent lives. Again courage to attempt change.  You will probably never understand my point. So your middle ground isn't the middle.  The office of President of the United should be respected no matter the man in the position.  It's Ironic that the reason that extremist HATE us is because of our openness and acceptance yet he felt somewhat safe to throw the shoe, not the case 8 years ago.  I do wish you well and accept that we will not see eye to eye.  As far as "the soldiers" that you brought up why don't you ask them what they think of you glorifying the shoe thrower.
~ Dean
 
Thanks for the apology, Dean. I accept. You and I are going to disagree no matter. I could go sentence by sentence and illustrate that (courage to send soldiers to war, you say - a chosen war that was completely avoidable as are the tens of thousands of American and Iraqi lives lost, I say) but it won't get us very far, especially by email and blog postings. I'm glad that I heard back from you and that you apologised as I thought it was a bit rough of a comment given how I really ended up in New Zealand, which is not for the reason you suppose. I did NOT move here because of politics, I have said that over and over and over on this site. That is a serious misperception.
I actually lost a friend over the idea that you express, "the office of the President ...should be respected no matter the man in the position." Bullshit. That's like saying you will do whatever your doctor says because s/he is 'the doctor' and knows better. These people are no different than you or I, they are human and fallable, and George made a huge pile of shit out of the Middle East. Him alone, he made the decisions, he is to blame, I don't care what title he holds. People earn respect, titles don't earn respect, and people earn it by being right and doing the right thing. The shoe was deserved. This doesn't mean I'm not a patriot or that I don't love America. I get pissed that I even have to type that sentence, but in this day it is still necessary to defend oneself against that charge, I guess.
Plus, it is not ironic that the extremists hate us because of our openness and acceptance, it is completely wrong in fact. That is a marketing statement so you'd buy into a war. It is bogus and you should look into it further. Islamic fascists attack the West because of its political policies and presence in the Middle East - at least that is what the fascists themselves say. But why should we believe them, right. You should read about this more rather than taking the word of Fox News. Finally, I would challenge your last statement and ask you to find out how many current soldiers voted Democratic at the last election.
Glad at least to have the chance to talk back and forth, it's more than most who disagree do. Take care
~ Angela

 

I will not argue whether the war in Iraq is now or ever has been justified.  The reality is that tens of thousands of people are dead--soldiers, women, and children.  For good or ill, the responsibility for these deaths is the decision of George W. Bush.  If the worst he ever has to endure is a single shoe hurling journalist, then he is a very lucky man.  Indeed, if the worst the world has to endure is a pair of shoe, we will all be lucky.
Soldiers must do what the President demands.  They do it for the love of their country and I have the deepest admiration for them.  I can not convey adequate levels of gratitude.  May a day swiftly come where soldiers will not be called on to die--anywhere.
Rarely, I come across this notion that being an expatriot means you've turned your back on your country in some way or that we are not fully part of the USA any longer.  I still pay taxes to the US.  I still have hundreds of friends, family and colleagues in the US.  I still send thousands of dollars to the US economy.  I still worry about the lives of our soldiers.  Everyday the Kiwi's look at me as the American that they know.  I am much more real than the Hollywood version they see on TV.  I can explain the history of why the US does some of the things it does.  I do my best to give New Zealand a good understanding of the United States.  To all the Dean's out there... What have you done to help your country?  What have you learned about another country that helps clarify what makes America different?  The US is far from perfect.  I would vastly prefer a shoe to the face in protest of the mistakes I've made compared to a bomb strapped to a teenager in my daycare.
~ Curtis

 

Indeed we are very far apart and like wise I could go line by line and argue with you.  You may have missed my sentence that stated I too voted for the Democratic.  That doesn't mean I want people to throw items at our president.  That is a huge insult in the Islamic world.  I have disagreed with doctors before it doesn't mean that I should shit on the floor and then throw it at him.  It's a bit juvenile.  By your standards we should have tared & feathered both the presidents of Iran and Venezuela when they were both here this year.  Look, they are elected officials of their perspective nations - I at least respect that. Its the same ole same ole far left = extreme emotion, and little logic.  I am a Reagan Democrat, a new phrase will be coined "Obama Republican".  At the very least I am not a sheep blindly voting for the same old party forever.  Has there ever been a good right winger in your world?  If you care to check your facts Islamic extremism gained ground in the 80's and was founded on riding the Islamic world of infidels i.e. you & me & our open - women voting, bikini wearing, gay accepting, Israli backing etc... society.  It's turned into them hating our government mainly for hunting and killing them to which I say fine. As for inferring that you now somehow hate the country of your birth - that has never been said by me.  I never once have thought that far left is anti-American, they are just wrong and very emotional. 
As a former soldier it does disturb me when people think that soldiers blindly follow orders never thinking for themselves - it's untrue. 
As for you Curtis, I usually try not to argue with 4th graders - it's a no win situation.  I really don't think you want to compare "what you have done for your country tally sheets" with me believe me it won't be close.  Both you and Angela give way to much credit to the power of the President.  This war was entered with a backing from the full congress, congressional members on both side decide intelligence & foreign affairs.  I'm afraid this was more of a group effort than you think.  As far as your statement about "turning your back on you country" you said that- not me (it is obviously one of your inner demons).  I get a kick out of people that think America & Americans should be VERY CONCERNED about what other nations think of us. I am a little bit more secure than that.  All you need be concerned about is being a good and fair PERSON and the rest will come.  There is no comparing the US and other nations.  America is in a different camp- not better - just saddled with way, way, way more responsibility.  A born & bred Kiwi will not understand that.  It's always been easy to arm chair quarterback, its different when you are sometimes forced to play the game and the game involves loss of life.  One day Curtis you may grow up and realize this.
~ Dean

 

19 December: Our TOP EIGHT for '08

By Angela (read more of Angela's stuff on her pages!)

Everyone else does it, why not us! Here is our list of the BEST 8 THINGS OF 2008 living in Nelson. Looking back, we really didn't do too much this year, it was a bit of a sleepy year! I'm guessing because of the world economic crisis and the exchange rates everywhere, we're likely sticking close to this part of the world again next year, but we'll definitely get out a bit more than this year.

8

Angela winning the poker tourney - okay so there were only 8 people over to our house for a poker tournament with a $25 buy in, but it was good friends and a great time and best of all I took the table at the end of the night $100 first place prize! I never win ANYTHING, let alone poker!!

7

Cycling with boyfriends and shopping day with girlfriends - Don managed to cycle through winter all year round and raced and rode and put in thousands of kilometres this year with lots of his buddies. Doing what he loves is why we moved here, and he continues to get out on his bike tons. For my part with my friends, Jade and I surprised Kate for her 40th birthday with a day trip to Wellington that was a total blast. We had such a great time, another highlight to the year - to say nothing about the amazing milestone of turning 40!! An aside shout to Jade for having little baby Hunter, all in a year's work.

6

Getting a new car - for Don this was a biggie, he didn't like our old Tillie after about a year of driving her, and she was breaking my knees having to get into her just inches off the ground. She did her job well enough while we had her, but it was time to move on and since then we've been diesel-ing it around town riding high and having that SUV feeling back while doing our environmental part.

5

Getting our broadband back (of course one of the worst things was losing it in the first place!) - this one is so recently painful in our minds, it seems fitting to add it to this spot. My jaw doesn't drop often, but when I thought I was going to have to live without broadband for up to 18 months, the world began spinning. Getting it back was equally sweet.

4

Visit to Australia's Gold Coast - TRAVEL! it was so nice, getting out of the country, seeing a new place, we thought we'd be stationary for about 3 - 4 years while we were here in case we didn't settle in good finances, but we did manage to get ourselves off the island. Bonus is the duty free selection is wayyyy better it seems. Three bottles per person liquor, plus even more bottles of wine!

3

Joe and Deanna's visit - It is really wonderful to have people visit from the States, friends and family. When we caught up with Joe and Deanna (Don's parents) it was like we had seen them just a few weeks ago! We had a great time with them, showing them lots of local things and sending them off to see Golden Bay for a couple of days. Unfortunately for them they don't like the cold and came to us in the middle of winter, so we had the heaters running nonstop all over the house and that didn't really make a dent in their chill! It's tough coming from a dry climate to a more humid climate, it really makes a difference. Our monthly electric bill during the time of their stay of about 5 days - this is NOT a complaint but a hilarious comment on how much the heaters ran in our house LOL - was $400, we'd never gone over $250 for a month!! Too funny, but that's the price you pay to have family come, it's all worth it!

2

Don changes jobs - again, on the top of the list because of its long term effect. Don moved to a job at Council from working for a local employment agency where he had a great year of trying something different, but now he can be lazier and has come to relish the slower pace just as I do. Come 5pm, off the clock!

1

Moving to our current house - We feel this one is tops because, if all goes according to the way it is supposed to, we've rented a great house that is warm and spacious for the long-term, so no moving for awhile. We found out just a week ago that our prior house, for which we were going to be kicked out at the end of Nov 2008 for an unknown reason, is back on the rental market starting in January. That means that the owners wanted to remove good, long-term tenants who were taking care of that house ONLY so that they could come and spend the Christmas holiday in it. That's it!!! SHORT SIGHTED, but we are NOT complaining, it was a great move for us and SUCKS for them.

Honorable mentions

We never get snow which totally rocks; Angela had Kraft Macaroni and Cheese all year long thanks to Star, John, Lindsay and Gareth; book club was a grand success and even spread into movie night; getting a housekeeper again is soooo awesome; making actually good-to-eat pumpkin pie means it feels like Thanksgiving all year round.

See you next year!

And here we bid you a fond farewell for the rest of the year. Don and I wish a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. Our best to you and yours for a joyful end to the year no matter what you are doing or how you are doing it!! The blog is taking a break while we are away, but join in again come January when we will gear up to spend another year showing you the wonderful, wild, quirky, kiwi, lovely place we call home - Nelson and New Zealand.

DnA

Your comments:

I feel honoured to be mentioned in your "honours" list!!! The shopping day was indeed a blast, a lovely surprise from my friends!
~ Kate